The 10 Grave Precepts
1. I vow to affirm life and not kill. “If a person does not harm any living being… and does not kill or cause others to kill – that person is a true spiritual practitioner.” – The Dhammapada
2. I vow to be content and not take what is not given to me. Avoid stealing. Do not take what is not yours. Live simply and frugally.
3. I vow to be dispassionate and not misuse the body for sensual gratification. Avoid sexual irresponsibility. Refrain from improper sexual activity. Do not engage in sexual misconduct.
4. I vow to speak the truth and not lie. Avoid lying, or any hurtful speech. Refrain from incorrect speech. Refrain from lying, gossiping, slander, and spreading false rumors. Silence is precious, Do not gossip or engage in frivolous conversations.
5. I vow to proceed clearly and not cloud the mind with intoxicants. Avoid alcohol and drugs which diminish clarity of consciousness.
6. I vow to see the perfection of all beings and not speak ill of others. Beware of judgments of others. Perfection is an illusion, as are the standards by which we seek to measure it. If perfection is measured by physical or mental attributes, then we are all lacking. It is well to remember that the harshest judgments should be reserved for ourselves.
7. I vow to see the interdependence of all beings and not put my wants or needs ahead of others. Practice humility. In order to be above, one must first be below.
8. I vow to not be withholding but to be generous with the dharma and whatever is at hand to share. Refrain from selfishness. Cast aside desire.
9. I vow to be calm and refrain from anger. The wise maintain composure and practice calm.
10. I vow to be earnest and not defile the three treasures. Do not defile the Buddha, dharma, or sangha.